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puppetmaker ([personal profile] puppetmaker) wrote2012-12-31 09:17 am
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In the Blink of an Eye

As stated yesterday on his web log, Peter had a stroke. So we are at the beginning of what is going to be a long road. We have a diagnosis, which is a small stroke in the Pons section of his brain. Now we have to figure out where we go from here and how we get Peter back to what he was before the stroke. We know that a total recovery is slim because damage to the brain doesn’t go away but the brain can be trained to work around the damage and give Peter back what he has lost.

I am dealing with a lot of woulda, coulda, and shoulda issues right now. But we are where we are and we are working out a plan of recovery.

What happened was that we were in Disney Hollywood Studios having just had lunch at the Prime Time Café. We were walking to the front gate because we were off to Animal Kingdom to see a friend of ours perform in the Finding Nemo Show. Peter had been tired and also not sleeping well the past week or so. He had been taking naps in the afternoon to catch up on the sleep that was eluding him at night. He told me that he had blurry vision in his right eye. The way he described it to me sounded like an ocular migraine so we took him back to the Hotel and went onto Animal Kingdom. We got back and he was working on his next novel. We decided to go to dinner but he was still having a slight vision problem so I drove.

While at dinner I thought his speech was a bit slurred. He put it down to fatigue and his face always looked like that. That morning he couldn't get his right leg to move correctly. He told us later that he had gotten up because he couldn’t sleep and tried to type and couldn’t get his hand to work correctly but he didn’t want to wake me up and alarm me. I called my mom with the laundry list of things. My mother said get him to a hospital NOW. We loaded him into the car and took him to Celebration Hospital at the recommendation of some friends.

Celebration Hospital did a great job of getting him in and starting treatment. His blood pressure was scary scary high so their first job was to get it back to closer to normal. They did some tests and a CAT scan to check for a stroke. The CAT scan didn’t show anything but they were going with their observations and the evidence that his blood work was not good and getting worse. The decision was made to transfer him down to Florida Hospital in downtown Orlando where they could do an MRI and some other tests Also Florida hospital has the best cardiac unit and they were worried that he had a heart attack or a cardiac episode (having told Peter that he might be having a cardiac episode, he put on his best comic guy voice and said, ”Worst Episode Ever.” So Ariel got to take “ride in an ambulance” off her bucket list as she went down to the hospital with Peter while I dealt with getting us out of our hotel room.

So I am betting that in this point of the narrative you, if you know our family, are asking where is Caroline while this is all going on. She was and is in Jacksonville with her sister and Peter’s eldest daughter, Shana. Currently we haven’t told her what is going on but that is going to change in the next couple of days. So she is having fun with big sister and her playmates in Jacksonville. Shana has been a rock in all this and a champ about taking care of her little sister while all this has been going on. I have been able to concentrate on Peter right now.

He went into the Florida Hospital in the Cardiac Care Unit as they try to ascertain what exactly happened. They did an MRI about midnight along with some other tests. They came to the conclusion that it was not a heart attack but a stroke and moved him to the neurology unit where he is now.

As he stated, he has lost most of the use of his right arm, his right leg is incredibly weak, the vision in his right eye is blurry, and the right side of his face is drooping slightly. But the brain is there with all its quips and quick retorts. He has had the nurses laughing a lot.

Today we figure out what the next step is and where it is going to happen. Tonight the New Year Begins and for us it is a very different beginning than we thought we were going to be having.

Thank you everyone for your good wishes, prayers and kind words. They do help. And BIG thank you to our Orlando buddies who have taken us into their houses and helped us deal with what is going on.

Continue to think good thoughts for Peter. This is not going to be easy for him or us but we will get through this together.

I am grateful that my husband is still alive.

[identity profile] ecosopher.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 02:35 pm (UTC)(link)
What a shock for all of you! Glad to hear there is some positive news and that he is lucid and' you are getting support. Thinking of you all and sending you light.

[identity profile] ladytalker13.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 02:48 pm (UTC)(link)
We'll keep praying for you all, and for the wisdom of the medical folk who are taking care of Peter.

[identity profile] millysdaughter.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 02:56 pm (UTC)(link)
**hugs**
While not common, full and complete recovery is possible -- my mother proved that after having THREE strokes.
We will pray for a complete recovery.

[identity profile] flutterbychild.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 03:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I'll be thinking of y'all.

[identity profile] trinalin.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 03:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh wow - my well wishes to your hubby and to you & your family! Hope he makes a full recovery!

[identity profile] scarlettina.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 03:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Keeping you and Peter in my thoughts, Kath. I hope he makes a full recovery!

[identity profile] womanofletters.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 03:59 pm (UTC)(link)
My best wishes to Peter for a refuah shelaimah.

[identity profile] kradical.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 04:05 pm (UTC)(link)
*big-ass hugs from me and Wrenn to all of you*

[identity profile] manifestress.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 04:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Thinking of you all

[identity profile] greeneyedkzin.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 04:30 pm (UTC)(link)
All my hopes and prayers for all of you. You're together as a family, and you did all the right things.

[identity profile] ginasketch.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 04:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry hun. I hope he does manage to recover, even if it takes time and that you and your family are okay.
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[personal profile] readinggeek451 2012-12-31 04:34 pm (UTC)(link)
::HUGS::

Thinking massively good thoughts. Take care of yourself as well as Peter.

[identity profile] wandereringray.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 04:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Continuing to think and pray for you all. *hugs*

[identity profile] dulcinbradbury.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 04:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry, and I'm glad it wasn't worse. I've been thinking of you all since I saw his post.

[identity profile] oceandezignz.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 04:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh my god. D: Keeping you all in my prayers.

[identity profile] dreamchaser.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 04:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Thinking of you all...

[identity profile] cielamara.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 05:07 pm (UTC)(link)
OMG, Kath, I'm so sorry to hear about your misadventures. I hope that Peter recovers well. I'm glad you guys were able to get him to the hospital in a timely manner.

[identity profile] queenanthai.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 05:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Kathleen, if there is ever, EVER anything I can do for you or your family, let me know. I could have Made Of Fail run a small donation drive to help with hospital bills if you need us to. Or if Peter wants an audiobook or something to cheer him up, anything you guys need, don't hesitate to ask.

[identity profile] narniadear.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 05:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Sending you good thoughts and prayers for a recovery of his right side. I'm glad he's still alert and doing ok.

[identity profile] caitriona27.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 05:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Hugs. You are all in my thoughts.

[identity profile] gryphonrose.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 05:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you for the update, Kathleen--we've all been worried, though of course telling us was hardly the priority. I'm glad to hear he's getting excellent care, and that you have friends and family to help take care of you--it's very easy in a situation like this to lose sight of the fact that your health is also important. Tell Peter we're thinking of him, obviously, and that if there's anything we can do to help with his recovery, just let us know.

[identity profile] fisme-nasu.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 06:17 pm (UTC)(link)
<3 I hope he recovers fully and quickly.

[identity profile] thecatinthehat.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 06:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Much love to you both.

[identity profile] wookieegunner.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 06:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Good thoughts and well wishes. I hope david makes a quick recovery.

[identity profile] porcelain72.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 06:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Sendingn all good thoughts your way.

[identity profile] dungeonwriter.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 06:48 pm (UTC)(link)
My heart and prayers go out to you.

[identity profile] alycewilson.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 06:52 pm (UTC)(link)
This year is determined to end with as much badness as possible, it seems. It's a very good sign that he's still got a sense of humor in all this. That attitude will speed his recovery, as will the love of his family. You are strong, and you can meet this new challenge together, I know it.

[identity profile] miintikwa.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 07:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Thoughts and prayers are with you.

Refuah Shlema

(Anonymous) 2012-12-31 07:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I wish Peter a speedy and as a complete as possible recovery, and I wish you and the rest of the family strength.

[identity profile] kenakeri.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 08:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Will keep you all in my prayers.

[identity profile] girasole.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Prayers and strong karma for all, for Peter indeed, but especially for you. Take care of yourself, too.

[identity profile] coyotegoth.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 08:52 pm (UTC)(link)
All very best wishes to him, and to all of you.

[identity profile] ghilledhu.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 09:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Good thoughts and wishes from myself and Loup.

[identity profile] wonderbink.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 10:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Been reading the well-wishes all up and down Twitter. Paul Melançon made a point of sending his regards and wishes for a speedy recovery.

You know we are all of us here for you. *sisterhugs*

[identity profile] xianghua.livejournal.com 2012-12-31 11:03 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't follow Peter's blog so I didn't hear about this till this morning (a friend who does mentiond it) and I've been thinking about you guys all day. :( Good thoughts for you all in this stressful time.

[identity profile] beeker121.livejournal.com 2013-01-01 02:10 am (UTC)(link)
Thinking good thoughts for Peter, you, and the whole family.

[identity profile] barbarienne.livejournal.com 2013-01-01 06:23 am (UTC)(link)
Oh goodness gracious. My thoughts are with you all and I hope he is able to recover swiftly.

[identity profile] sneezythesquid.livejournal.com 2013-01-01 11:22 am (UTC)(link)
My heart dropped and then went into my throat when I heard the news. I'm glad that he's recovering. I can't imagine the stress you have to be under right now. You have my deepest wishes of wellness for his speedy recovery. I really wish that I could do more.

[identity profile] amarafox.livejournal.com 2013-01-01 08:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, yikes, I missed this.

I am sending warm thoughts for a speedy recovery to Peter!

[identity profile] amusingmuse.livejournal.com 2013-01-02 03:19 am (UTC)(link)
Good thoughts being thought and sent y'all's way.

[identity profile] alryssa.livejournal.com 2013-01-02 05:56 am (UTC)(link)
This must have been a very scary experience for you all. I do hope for a speedy recovery for Peter and that there are no repeats.

[identity profile] oracne.livejournal.com 2013-01-02 02:07 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sending good thoughts your way, K.

[identity profile] beltainelady.livejournal.com 2013-01-04 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
I'm just catching up on Live journal. Wow. OMGS. Wow.

I'll put you all in my Worry Box. You're all in my thoughts.