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puppetmaker ([personal profile] puppetmaker) wrote2010-01-06 09:56 pm

LJ Idol Season 6 Week 9 The Better Half


(Caroline and Peter making brownies together on a cold and snowy afternoon)

This is a picture of my better halves, my husband Peter and my daughter Caroline. They make me be a better person and care for something outside of my problems and myself. They help me to be all that I can be.

My daughter believes that I can do anything. “Mommy can fix any toy and repair any stuff animal.” “Mommy is the best cook except Grandma” (which I give her because my mother is a gourmet cook and I am not even close to her level of culinary skill) “Mommy can clean anything and she is so good at organizing” (this is usually followed with a plea to help her with her room which she has torn up looking for something). “Mommy can talk to the cats and they listen to her and do what she wants.” She holds a belief still that I am magical and all knowing. She loves me because I am silly. She hugs me when I am feeling blue. She tries to help me feel better. She is my world and I am hers.

My husband believes I have great-untapped potential. He believes in what I can do and me. He has made me step up my game many times and in doing so, I have found out that I can do more than I thought I could. I have pulled costumes together that I never thought I could do. He appreciated my mind. We talk a lot about things he is working on. We have a couple things that we are doing together. I am his sounding board and my input is valued. Years ago we were talking about Maddrox and what could you do with a mutant that replicates himself. I remember that I had this weird idea and I laughed. Peter asked me what was so funny. I told him that he would think it was stupid. He said to let him be the judge of that. I asked him what if Maddrox had a split personality disorder to the point that each dupe was a different personality. We bounced the idea around a bit and Peter wrote the Maddrox mini-series, which led into the current run of X-Factor.

He is there for me. He understands my weird moods and me. He knows what I like and surprises me with things I didn’t know I liked until he introduces me to them. There is so much that we have in common. We always have something to talk about. He has really cool friends and he likes my friends too. My family knows that he loves me and they love him. He makes me a better person and makes me strive to be all I can be for him.

Together and separately they are my better half. They complete me in ways I didn’t know I needed to be complete in. They have made me the person I am today. And for that I try to be the better half for them.

[identity profile] beldar.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 03:07 am (UTC)(link)
Getting the cats to listen and obey is truly a magical gift, I'm in awe of you.

[identity profile] puppetmaker40.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 01:00 pm (UTC)(link)
They do it and don't complain ....much. I got them to following me into the dining room aka the cat room and all I had to do was touch the magic food bag.
Edited 2010-01-07 13:00 (UTC)

[identity profile] edith-jones.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 03:54 am (UTC)(link)
I really loved reading this. You are obviously very blessed with your family. I am 100% certain that they are equally blessed with you. Thanks for sharing your family life with us.
Allie.

[identity profile] puppetmaker40.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 01:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you for reading. I know that I am blessed with them and I say thanks for that each day.

[identity profile] millysdaughter.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 05:26 am (UTC)(link)
If you can herd cats, you really CAN do anything!

[identity profile] puppetmaker40.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 12:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Just did it this morning. I am the kat gawdess!

[identity profile] millysdaughter.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 02:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Damn!You ARE good!
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[personal profile] teasingfool 2010-01-07 06:00 am (UTC)(link)
I really love these windows into your life. :)

(Caroline and Peter making brownies together on a cold and snowy afternoon)

That is such an adorable picture!

[identity profile] puppetmaker40.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 01:02 pm (UTC)(link)
I know. It was a hard picture to take without there being posing from one part or another. But I snuck to the door and snapped it with my cell phone.

[identity profile] baxaphobia.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 09:16 am (UTC)(link)
You have a wonderful family and it shows through your writing! It's great to be happy!

[identity profile] puppetmaker40.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 01:03 pm (UTC)(link)
thank you. It is nice to be happy.

[identity profile] heartnut.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 02:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Herding Cats is a gift that only some Middle School Band Directors master. I think it comes to you naturally.

I'm so glad that you have such a happy family to live and grow old with. What a blessing you are to them, Kathleen. You're a great Mommy.

[identity profile] puppetmaker40.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 02:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you. I am glad that Caroline is growing up in this household.

[identity profile] mabfan.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 03:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Very nice.

[identity profile] puppetmaker40.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 04:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you. You'll be making brownies with your two soon enough. *grin*

[identity profile] wherdafux-d-cat.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 04:56 pm (UTC)(link)
That melted the icicles off of my little heart. :) (I'm not cold-hearted, honest. It's just cold in here.)

Your last few sentences about Caroline brought this to mind.

All in all, well done. You delivered a lovely case of the warm fuzzies without getting syrup or goo all over them en route.

[identity profile] puppetmaker40.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 06:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you. I was seriously trying not to bring it to shmaltzy but express how I feel about these people.

[identity profile] wherdafux-d-cat.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 09:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Mission accomplished. :)

[identity profile] plastrickland23.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 05:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Yay! for happy home life! Nice to read positive entries. Thanks! P.

[identity profile] puppetmaker40.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 06:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you. They are two big positives in my life.

[identity profile] wickedsin.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 06:42 pm (UTC)(link)
awwwwwwwwwwww

[identity profile] puppetmaker40.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 06:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you. They are awe inspiring aren't they?
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[personal profile] shadowwolf13 2010-01-07 08:13 pm (UTC)(link)
I love the relationship you have with your family and it's always so wonderful to read about. :)

[identity profile] puppetmaker40.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 09:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you. I know I have some special here and I treasure it.

[identity profile] onda-bianca.livejournal.com 2010-01-07 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Very sweet...:)

[identity profile] liret.livejournal.com 2010-01-08 03:07 am (UTC)(link)
It's nice that you and your family appreciate each other. :)
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[identity profile] kiwiria.livejournal.com 2010-01-08 10:29 am (UTC)(link)
What a sweet entry! Thank you :)

[identity profile] rejeneration.livejournal.com 2010-01-08 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Aww, it's so nice to see people appreciating their "better halves". =D

[identity profile] dungeonwriter.livejournal.com 2010-01-08 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
What a wonderful entry, and family. And I know you're their better half too!

[identity profile] norda.livejournal.com 2010-01-10 05:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Our mates and families do so much for us.

[identity profile] joeymichaels.livejournal.com 2010-01-10 10:52 pm (UTC)(link)
For the record, that Maddrox idea was brilliant. I've been loving that story...

[identity profile] imafarmgirl.livejournal.com 2010-01-11 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
Aww they sound like a fantastic family!