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puppetmaker) wrote2005-12-08 07:53 am
puppetmaker) wrote2005-12-08 07:53 am
Prost!
I watched South Park last night. Having seen the episode, I am wondering of Parker and Stone watch Penn & Tellers: B*lls**t since the story followed along the lines of one of their shows about 12 step programs. They both commented on the idea that some have declared alcoholism as a disease. I'm sorry but cancer is a disease, even syphilis is a disease but alcohol is a choice. You can "cure" yourself by not drinking which is will power and self-control. If you can get rid of cancer with self-control I know some scientists who want to talk to you. Some people have little or no self-control and need structure to over come their problem. That is how I think 12 step programs work. I am not saying that for some they don't work. I'm objecting to calling addiction to anything (Video Games, drugs, gambling, a TV show actor) a disease.
I have worked with a lot of people in my time at various jobs. I have had to deal with functional alcoholics and drug addicts with possibly some video game junkies thrown in for good measure. For the majority I have found that they really don't take personal responsibility for their actions (It's not their fault that they had a four martini lunch, it was the Mayor's[This really was an excuse I was given when someone showed up plastered]) and there is a sense of self-loathing. They don't like themselves very much so they drink to feel better. I am sure there are other reasons as well but it comes down to the fact that they have a choice to pick up that next drink or not. I have a friend who has never had a drop of alcohol in his life. It is a conscious choice on his part since he watched a good part of his family and extended family drink themselves to death. He knows himself well enough to know that if he started he might not stop so he has chosen not to even start. I am very proud of him for doing so. Yes, I do imbibe in alcohol, Yes, I have imbibed to excess from time to time but I have made the choices that put me in that state and I have made the choice not to find myself in that state again. Self-control is hard especially at an open bar but everyone can do it if they want to.
We may be getting another dusting of snow. Maybe an inch or so at most which will then turn to cold rain as the sun comes up. This time it will stick since we have been in a deep freeze since the last storm when through. I plan to use my anti-snow juju and stock up on things we need so that the storm will not come. Laugh if you will but we went from dire predictions of 5 to 12 inches to 3 to 5 to 1 to 3 after I did this on Monday so I am going to do it again today.
The living room, dining room, and kitchen are clean. Today I can concentrate on my back log of e-mail in my various accounts and getting some materials together for my next project along with running a few other errands that need running.
I am grateful for my parents teaching me about how to handle alcohol by both word and example.
I have worked with a lot of people in my time at various jobs. I have had to deal with functional alcoholics and drug addicts with possibly some video game junkies thrown in for good measure. For the majority I have found that they really don't take personal responsibility for their actions (It's not their fault that they had a four martini lunch, it was the Mayor's[This really was an excuse I was given when someone showed up plastered]) and there is a sense of self-loathing. They don't like themselves very much so they drink to feel better. I am sure there are other reasons as well but it comes down to the fact that they have a choice to pick up that next drink or not. I have a friend who has never had a drop of alcohol in his life. It is a conscious choice on his part since he watched a good part of his family and extended family drink themselves to death. He knows himself well enough to know that if he started he might not stop so he has chosen not to even start. I am very proud of him for doing so. Yes, I do imbibe in alcohol, Yes, I have imbibed to excess from time to time but I have made the choices that put me in that state and I have made the choice not to find myself in that state again. Self-control is hard especially at an open bar but everyone can do it if they want to.
We may be getting another dusting of snow. Maybe an inch or so at most which will then turn to cold rain as the sun comes up. This time it will stick since we have been in a deep freeze since the last storm when through. I plan to use my anti-snow juju and stock up on things we need so that the storm will not come. Laugh if you will but we went from dire predictions of 5 to 12 inches to 3 to 5 to 1 to 3 after I did this on Monday so I am going to do it again today.
The living room, dining room, and kitchen are clean. Today I can concentrate on my back log of e-mail in my various accounts and getting some materials together for my next project along with running a few other errands that need running.
I am grateful for my parents teaching me about how to handle alcohol by both word and example.
Re: eh, so wordy
I am sure that is the case for some or most. I think what yanks my chain is calling it a disease because for me (YMMV) it does not follow the webster definition of a disease. Of course this is coming from the daughter of a woman who taught clinical nursing for more years than I care count. I do agree that there are mental illnesses associated with a lot of addiction and alcoholism and those need to be attended to before the person can get better on any level. Gawds knows how many times I have been off and on various anti-depressant medications for the past 30 years. Currently off and have been since I hooked up with my husband and had a kid but then that is me and I know my case is different than the next persons.
To clarify what set me off. The South Park episode was about one of the characters Dad's getting a DUI for drinking while driving. He is forced to go to an AA meeting which informs him he has a disease and is going to die. Since he doesn't believe in a higher power he assumes he can;t get better and must drink more since he has a disease. This gets more and more absurd and involves a bleeding statue and the Pope before the kid can get his dad to see that he (the dad) is a moderate drinker and he doesn't need to drink like a fish to feed his disease and he can enjoy a few beers without feeling guilty.
You must know I admire how you have pulled your life together and pushed for a better life for yourself. You rawk in my books.
Re: eh, so wordy
J and I were talking about something similar the other day, how some " NA Nazi's" are all like "substance consumption is evil, it should all be illegal, never be around people who drink" and we both agree that lots of people who drink/use aren't addicts and it's never a problem, so just leave well enough alone. I don't care for fundamentalists of any persuasion, personally.